Beginner's strap-on kit with universal harness and silicone dildo

This kit brings together everything you need for a first strap-on. The centrepiece is the Fetish Submissive Harness G-Spot: one size, with an elastic belt and its own black silicone dildo, non-vibrating, with a total length of 16 cm and 12.5 cm insertable. As the dildo comes with its harness, there is no need to find two parts that fit together. It is completed by EROS Aqua lubricant, 100 ml, water-based as the harness brand recommends, and the 50 ml alcohol-free EROS cleaner. Everything arrives in a single delivery.

What's included

• Fetish Submissive Harness G-Spot with silicone dildo, black: a one-size harness with an elastic belt, which according to the brand fits most sizes, and a dildo in hypoallergenic medical-grade silicone, with a silky feel, a slim shape and a tapered tip. It measures 16 cm in total length, with 12.5 cm insertable. This is the non-vibrating version.
• EROS Aqua lubricant, 100 ml: water-based, with no oil or perfume, colourless and odourless. Megasol, its manufacturer, states that it is suitable for use with condoms.
• EROS All Purpose Toy Cleaner, 50 ml: alcohol-free spray for toys. The supplier lists it as suitable for all materials, including silicone.

Who it's for (and who it isn't)

It is for female couples, for couples who want to try pegging and for any couple who want to swap roles; the brand presents it for penetrating both men and women. The dildo is slim with a tapered tip, designed for beginners.

It is not for those who want vibration: this model does not vibrate. Nor is it for those who want to swap dildos: the harness is sold with its own, and the brand does not say whether it takes another one, nor does it publish the dildo's diameter.

Why they go together

With a strap-on, what most often goes wrong is the fit between the harness and the dildo. Here there is nothing to work out: the dildo comes with its harness, from the same manufacturer. The dildo is silicone and the brand recommends a water-based lubricant, such as EROS Aqua, which also works with condoms. The EROS cleaner is alcohol-free and suitable for silicone.

How to use it

1. Put on the harness and adjust the elastic belt to your waist.
2. Apply water-based lubricant to the dildo: the EROS Aqua in the kit.
3. If you are going to use a condom on the dildo, EROS Aqua is suitable for use with condoms.
4. When you have finished, spray the dildo with the EROS cleaner, leave it for 60 seconds and rinse it with water. The brand also advises water and a mild soap.

Compatibility and care

• Dildo (silicone): water-based lubricant, as the brand recommends; the EROS Aqua in the kit is water-based. Silicone-based ones can damage silicone.
• Condoms: EROS Aqua is suitable for latex condoms, according to its manufacturer.
• Cleaning: the EROS cleaner is alcohol-free and the supplier lists it as suitable for silicone. The harness brand advises water and a mild soap.
• Fit: the harness and the dildo are sold together and made by the same manufacturer, so there is no need to check ring or base sizes.

How it differs from other kits

• Progressive anal training kit: three Addicted Toys plugs in sizes S, M and L with Swede Aqua Comfort anal lubricant. It is for moving up in size with anal play, without a harness.
• Couples' starter kit: built around the Satisfyer Legendary Duo vibrating ring, with lubricant, cards and condoms. It does not include a harness or dildo.